So probably you guys are jealous that we can have multiple orgasms. Ah, no, not you. Right. Who ya kidding? Tell you what then, let's talk about Kegels.  Usually Kegel exercises are recommended to women who have had a baby to tighten back up the pelvic muscles.

However, Kegels are also used to treat some other things beyond increasing sexual pleasure and learning how to get a grip on the guy's thing. But that's a different story.

This is the kind of muscle building that pays off, by the way. I do these and my very close male friends can't believe what I can do to them. And they don't even know what it does for me. Tightness is real good.

OK, but what about guys?  Oh yes, these are very good for them too and they are also prescribed for guys for prostate problems and a couple other things. But, how about stronger erections, better control of ejaculation and - possibly, the ability to have a type of orgasm without ejaculation allowing men the magic of multiple orgasms (without a lengthy pause that refreshes).

Better 'fess up that this last thing on ejaculation-free orgasms is not real well documented. On the other hand, exercises like the Kegel aren't exactly new. Both Hatha Yoga and Tantric practices use something quite similar.

I think I'm going to see about putting together a little special report on how to do these exercises. I love the results and after I talked [no names today] into doing them, serious fun resulted.

And there's something else - if you're a guy you probably really don't have a clue about what women talk about, how detailed, specific and raunchy the talk gets at times. You've been dissected by your lovers with the help of their friends and you, poor fella, have no secrets. But, I almost never hear a woman who does Kegels complain about how big a guy is (unless they're really tiny or humungous). And the women with men who do Kegels are happy happy happy. So did you know that certain exercises could supercharge your sex life? 

Listen to Kristi - There's some real quality time in store for the couple that Kegels together.

Now I know sometimes guys have a lot of trouble meeting women and getting to know them and asking them out - but gimme a break here.  This guy is pushing a nasty manipulative approach that starts out with lies and then more lies.  Designed to take advantage of some basic needs, like finding reasonable housing, and building on the fact that, yeah,  women are attracted to success, money, power, whatever.

If you really want to see what I'm talking about here's the permalink:
How to Get Chicks Guaranteed

First, "chicks"? What century is this character living in? I don't like that much at all.

So if you follow this 'plan', you end up with a bunch of names and phone numbers of women you've scammed who sooner or later - probably sooner, will realize you are lying scum.  Isn't that a good way to find dates?  Loser.

Still, there are some things on that site that are real interesting - check out the True Lies category if you like a little far out metaphysics. And there's weird stuff in the other categories too..

You have any idea why tattoos are so fascinating? The idea of using your skin for a work of art is part of it. Now some are just not really attractive, but it's still hard not to look and keep on looking.

But some are awesome. Some are mysterious. Some are incredibly sexy - though that can depend a lot on the body they're on and your tastes.

One thing about real tattoos. They hurt to get and they aren't all that comfortable while they heal. If you get unlucky or pick a bad shop to do your ink you can get infected. So tattoos also carry a risk and because of the pain are a kind of challenge to the uninked.

And real tattoos are pretty much permanent - maybe later on there'll be a piece here on removal, but you better think of it as permanent. They're easier, sometimes, to modify than to eliminate, but thinking permanent may help you make a better choice. Never, ever, get yourself inked when you're loaded on something. You can create a serious problem for yourself that way.

So, you're thinking, cool, I wanna get one. OK. What piece of skin? Very very few people get tattoos in locations that can't be concealed with standard clothes. While tattoos are much more acceptable these days, they are not universally accepted.

But the real question is what do you want inked on your bod for all time. Full glorious color, dark tribal, cute, scary - there's flash for every taste. The most important thing is to take your time, consider everything and find the tattoo you really want.

With the internet, you know have the option of accessing vast quantities of flash in galleries from your home. Hey, no more sitting for hours in a tat shop and leafing through hundreds and hundreds of pages of flash until you get so wasted you chose something you might regret later.

Two of the best and most popular membership galleries - ones that allow you to download unlimited flash and offer other services for a one time fee are:

Chopper Tattoos which you can see here: Unlimited Tattoos

Tattoo Me Now which you can visit here: Your Dream Tattoos

So now, if you're ready to start the search and work your way up to getting inked on, you've got a place to go.

One small warning, some people get kind of hooked on the whole tattoo thing. You know, start with a little one on the butt. Then maybe an upper arm band. Hmmm, something on the foot might be cool. Lower back is definitely all naked, needs some ink. You can see where it might lead. Tattoos can become a life style.